Best Gay Sex Toys - Top 15 We've Tried in 2026

We've ranked the top-selling, most popular dildos, vibrators, strokes, lube, and more. This is a list of the best gay sex toys you should add to your toybox this year.

These are toys designed with men in mind and enhance anal, prostate, and penile stimulation. They can be used solo or with a partner and range from beginner to advanced. We go over different types of toys to help you choose the right one for your needs.

Best Gay Sex Toys

We have chosen 2 or 3 stand out products from each category with a variety of features and price points to help you choose the right sex toy for your needs.

Boy with Balls Anal Dildo

The Boy with Balls is the best gay sex toy for anal play. This is thanks to its curved shape which contours perfectly inside when inserted. The penis tip also comes to a nice tapered point allowing for easy insertion. Moreover, the head is shaped to hit your prostate in the right spot.

Love it Love it! - "I am a straight man that enjoys anal play and prostate stimulation and this little baby is not only perfect in design and texture but size and the perfect curve to reach my p-spot. The suction is great for thrusting.

Material	Medical Grade Ultra-Flex PVC
Diameter	1.5 in. (3.8cm)
Length	6.5in (16.5 cm)
Insertable-Length	5.75 in. (14.5cm)
Features	Hands-Free Suction Cup
Difficulty Level	Beginner to Intermediate

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The Boy with Balls also comes in a vibrating variant. With the same dimensions and feel, but with an extra buzz.

Platinum Silicone Dong

We love this dildo for its versatility and customization. You can opt for 6, 8, or 9 inches! The balls at the base act as a realistic stopper, and the strong suction cup allows you to use it hands-free. The Platinum dildo series also features 3 different colors to choose from (Tan, Beige, and Brown). Best of all, all dildos come with a 3-piece silicone cock ring kit.

King Cock Vibrator With Balls

The King Cock Series comes in 4 lengths and styles all giving a unique challenge and feel. This anal vibrator also comes in 4 different color options, for even more customization.

The hands-free base is a welcome addition, and the skin-like material adds to the realism. The King Cock is also Water-Proof and is Strap-on harness compatible for even more versatility.

Material	PVC Fanta Flesh
Suction Cup Base	✓
Waterproof	✓
Bend to Any Angle	✓
Multi-Speed Vibration	✓
4 Colors, 4 Lengths to Choose From	✓
3 AAA Batteries (not included)	✓

Prostate Massagers

The P-Spot, or as it is more commonly referred to as the prostate, can trigger your body to orgasm almost instantly. Prostate massagers are angled and shaped to target your prostate in just the right spot for the ultimate orgasm.

Silicone Prostate Locator

The Prostate Locator is made from realistic, skin-soft silicone and is shaped with a targeted tip that contours against your prostate and provides pressure in the right spot. It is also easy to insert with a nice ring grip at the bottom. If this is your first time buying a prostate massager then you really can't do much better.

Length	3.75 Inches
Width	1.25 Inches
Latex & Phthalate Free	✓
Material	Silicone

Prostate Play Starter Kit

The Assgasm also comes as a piece in a prostate starter kit that includes 4 of the best gay sex toys of the year:

Material	Medical Grade Silicone
Waterproof	✓
4-Piece Prostate Kit	✓
Prostate Vibrator Probe	✓
Difficulty Level	Beginner-Intermediate

Anal Prostate Vibrators

Much like an anal dildo, a good anal vibrator should be well-sized and shaped specifically to hit the prostate. This can send targeted pulses to give you an orgasm above and beyond the other manual toys we have mentioned so far.

Satisfyer Heat Climax Smart Prostate Vibrator

The Satisfyer Heat Climax Smart Prostate Vibrator is a smart sex toy. It has all the great features of premium toys but costs much less. The smooth silicone body is ergonomic and easy to maneuver thanks to the ring grip at the base. It has 12 vibration modes and a built-in heating unit. You can control it with buttons or the iOS and Android app. It can even buzz along to the beat of your favorite music. Overall it is one of the most feature-rich, best gay sex toys you can buy - period.

Material: Silicone	✓
Smart Toy with Bluetooth Control via App	✓
Heats up to 102.2 °F (39 °C)	✓
12 Preset Vibration Programs	✓
IPX7 Waterproof	✓
USB Rechargeable	✓

Butt Plugs

Whether you are trying anal play for the first time or want to explore more, butt plugs are a great tool! They help you train for anal sex and prepare your body for the real thing. Butt plugs are some of the best gay sex toys and come in a variety of sizes.

Silicone Anal Trainer Kit

The Silicone Anal Trainer Kit is great for beginners. It helps you gradually move from a comfortable 1 inch to a more realistic 1.5 inches. The plugs are also made from a soft material and have a very beginner-friendly tapper to help you get started.

Material	Silicone
Hands-Free Suction Cup Base	✓
Features	Fully Waterproof and Water Submersible
Difficulty Level	First-Timers to Intermediate

Glass Anal Training Trio

The anal trainer kit also comes in a glass variant. This is great for people looking for an all-natural alternative, without the use of synthetic materials. This set is made from high-strength tempered glass that is certified for safety and durability.

Material: High-Strength Tempered Glass	✓
Non-allergic, Non-porous, Easy to Clean	✓
Small Plug	4.55 in. by 1.15 in.
Medium	5 in. by 1.35 in.
Large: 5.75 in. by 1.5 in.	✓

Hollow Strap-Ons and Penis Sleeves

These are strap-ons designed specifically for men, with a hollow dildo that you slide over your dick. This gives you extra length, and width, or gives your partner a bit of adventure. Strap-ons are a great way to add a bit of fun or change up your sex routine. These are great for couples looking to add a bit of size, challenge, and excitement into the mix. This versatility makes hollow strap-ons some of the best gay sex toys to choose from!

Size Matters Silicone Hollow Strap-On

The size matters lets you add length and girth to your natural size. It is easy to strap-on and gives a nice feel for both people on top and bottom. The 6-inch size is also a nice managable size, and the silicone build is a nice plus!

Shaft insertion length	6 in.
Hollow shaft depth	4.5 in.
Shaft opening diameter	1.6 in.
Ball harness inner diameter	2.7 in.
Flexible Shaft	✓
Material	Silicone

Fetish Fantasy Hollow Strap On Vibe

As the name suggests, the erection assistant is designed for people who want to enhance their erctions. The erection assistant strap-on comes in 4 different lengths, including 6, 7, 8, and 9.5 inches, as well as a range of colors. The standard 6-inch size also has an optional add-on vibrator which allows for even more stimulation.

Length	6 (Vibrating), 8, 8.5, or 9.5 in.
Waist Size	29 in. to 59 in.
Material	Nylon Strap, Phthalate-free PVC Dong

Cock Rings

If you are a first-time sex toy user then cock rings are a great place to start. Cock rings are a simple sex toy and work by adding extra pressure to the base of your cock. This added tension makes your penis rock solid, your orgasms more intense, and can even make you last longer in bed. Here are a few of our favorite cock rings to get you started.

Pro Sensual Adjustable Cock Ring Kit

The Pro Adjustable XL Cock Ring Set allows you to find a size and tightness that works best for you. Best of all, the quick-release button lets you take it off quickly and easily, or give yourself a bit of extra breathing room if you are in a pinch.

"Wow! After so many rings that not only failed to fit, but didn't stay snug enough to do the job, this product is everything that it claims to be! The way it is made makes it easy to use.  It is snug and comfortable without pinching your skin. The results were quick and made me have a better erection!"

• Material: Silicone Band
• Level: First-Timers
• Diameter: Up to 4 in. (10cm)
• Cock Ring Set of 2
• Quick Release Button
• Double Cock-Ball Lasso

Sensual Pro Set of 3

These cock ring set bands are made from strong, stretchy, skin-safe black silicone and can be rolled on (meaning no pulled hairs or friction). The three sizes let you pick a band that fits you best and move up as you get more practiced.

• Material: Silicone
• Pack of 3 Cock Rings
• Smooth Roll-on Design
• Size (mm): 22, 26, 30
• Level: Beginner

Cock Ring Starter Pack

The Cock Ring Starter Pack lets you sample 4 different cock ring types, and experiment with a variety of styles and sizes. Altogether you get 9 cock rings, to help find the perfect size and feel.

• Includes: 9 Cock Rings
• 1 Heavy Duty Silicone Band
• 2 Adjustable Cock Ring Lassos
• 3 Sizes Silicone Cock Ring Set
• 3 Super-Stretch Donut Rings

Male Masturbators

Masturbators are a fantastic addition to any sex toy collection. Male masturbators come in a variety of textures, materials, and tightnesses and are some of the best gay sex toys you can get. Investing in a good, quality masturbator can really help to make hand jobs a lot more exciting.

Satisfyer Men Heat Vibration Black Stroker

The Satisfyer the latest and greatest masturbator with 70 different vibration settings, and built-in temperature control! The top-notch build is IPX7 waterproof, has a fully USB rechargeable battery, and digital touch controls. All in all, this makes the Satisfyer the most high-tech toy on this list.

Magnetic USB Rechargeable Battery	✓
70 Vibration Functions	✓
Digital Touch Controls	✓
IPX7 Waterproof	✓
3-Stage Heating Up To 40C (104F) Degrees	✓

Anal Enemas and Douches

For those looking to have anal fun, enemas are your best friend. Enemas work by shooting water into your bum, flushing out any surprises that might be sticking around. If hygiene is a big concern, then using an enema is the number one tool you can use to prepare for anal play.

Universal Anal Enema

The Universal anal enema comes in 4 different sizes. The Universal enema is comfortable and easy to use. The added bonus of a removable tip also makes it a breeze to clean up.

Removable Enema Tip	✓
Smoothed Tube for Easy Insertion	✓
EZ-Squeeze Enema Bulb	✓
4 Sizes to Choose From	✓

Deluxe Anal Enema Premium Shower Kit

Showerhead enemas are fast, effective, and can give you an extra deep clean. Just attach the hose to a faucet or showerhead and douche as deep as you want. The smooth, black nozzle head is easy to insert and comes with two lengths for extra deep cleaning.

4.5 in. & 9 in. Silicone Nozzle Attachment	✓
6-Foot Stainless Steel Hose	✓
Attach Directly to Shower or Faucet	✓

Anal Lubes for Gay Sex Toys

Whether it be with a prostate stimulator, masturbator, or anal dildo, investing in quality lube can be the difference between an amazing or uncomfortable sex toy experience. It doesn't matter if you are a sex toy pro or a first-timer - using quality anal lube is a MUST.

Pjur Analyse Me! Anal Glide

Pjur Analyse Me's is our favorite lube for anal sex year after year. The super slippery silicone base is paired with a plant-based Jojoba anal relaxant which makes penetration easier and pain-free. This is ideal for people who are still beginners or have had problems with pain in the past.

Relaxant	Jojoba Extract (Natural)
Relaxing Strength	⭐☆☆☆☆
Lube Thickness Level	⭐⭐⭐⭐☆
Brand	Pjur

Fabulous! - Analyse Me has to be one of the best lubes for anal sex ever! Silky smooth and helps make it easier to take either a toy or the real deal! Love this lube!"

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Anal Glide Relaxing Water Lubricant

Mojo is our favorite water based anal lube thanks to its all natural ingredients. It inclides clove extract which works as a mild anal relaxant. The lube itself is super slippery, and has a quality consistency. his lube does an amazing job at reducing friction, preventing fissures, and reducing pain.

All Vegan Ingredients	✓
Size	4oz
Base	Water
Relaxant	Clove Extract
Relaxing Strength	⭐☆☆☆☆

Max Relax Calming Anal Ease

For the most powerful anal relaxant, there is Max Relax. The first thing you will notice about Max Relax is the feeling of quality throughout, from the packaging to the gel itself. Unlike other options, this is a stand-alone desensitizer that will give you the most effective results.

Active Relaxing Ingredient	Benzocaine
Relaxant Type	FDA-Approved Synthetic Relaxant
Size	1.2 oz (35 ml)
Relaxant Strength	⭐⭐⭐

Lube Injectors

Another handy companion to the lube we mentioned above is a lube shooter. Lube injectors work like a syringe, allowing you to easily inject lube inside. They are a heck of a lot more effective than using a finger. If you haven't used one yet, you will thank yourself later for making the switch.

Inject Lube Deep Inside	✓
For Anal or Vaginal Application	✓
Easy One-Handed Design	✓

Sex Toy Cleaner

If you want to protect the hygiene and longevity of that nice, new toy, then picking up an inexpensive bottle of toy cleaner is a no-brainer. Toy cleaners help to disinfect your toy and are a necessary step after washing your toy with mild soap and water. A disinfecting toy cleaner will also ward off dangerous bacteria and smells to help keep you and your toy safe.

Anti-Bacterial Sex Toy Cleaner

Toy cleaners will also help prevent your toy's materials from breaking down. They are the easiest way to stay clean and get the full life out of your toy.

Toy cleaner is a great way to keep your toy fresh, hygienic, and odor-free.

Gay Sex Toys Starter Kit

For those of you who are just getting started, I recommend checking out the Anal Sex Starter kit. For those looking for a collection of the best gay sex toys we have gone over, it is a great option.

3 Plug Silicone Anal Trainer Kit	✓
2 Cock Rings	✓
2 Lube Injectors	✓
Anal Enema (90ml)	✓
Pjur Analyse Me Lube (100ml)	✓
Toy Cleaner (100ml)	✓

Best Gay Sex Toys Delux Kit

You can also check out the best gay sex toys deluxe starter kit which comes with our 2 top-selling anal dildos, and all of the supplies you need to get started.  

3 Plug Silicone Anal Trainer Kit	✓
Boy with Balls Anal Dildo	✓
Jellies Starter Anal Dildo	✓
Anal Enema (90ml)	✓
Pjur Analyse Me Anal Lube (100ml)	✓
Toy Cleaner (100ml)	✓
2 Lube Injectors	✓
2 Cock Rings	✓

For more help choosing the best sex toys for gay men, you can read more of our in-depth buyer's guides. We go into all different sex toy categories to help you find the right toy for your needs. For questions about buying the right toy or any other inquiries, email us. We are happy to help!