Desensitizing
Pick by format first: sprays, creams and lubes in this desensitizing range work differently, and the base ingredient decides how each one feels and cleans up. Deep throat sprays are a separate choice from the thicker fisting creams and anal lubes.
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Desensitizing Buying Guide
Deep throat sprays form their own group here, with Goodhead Deep Throat Spray Wild Cherry and two Master Series versions, Suck It and Frozen. They are applied in a different way from creams and lubes, so compare the format before you compare the brand. The flavored Goodhead option is one to look at if taste matters to you.
Creams, gels and lubes for anal use and fisting make up the largest part of the range. Master Series Invade Deep Fisting Cream, Tom of Finland Fisting Formula and Fist It Desensitizer 500ml are built for heavier use, while Cleanstream Relax in its Extra Strength and standard anal versions and Master Series Anal Desensitizing Lube are the lighter starting points. Bottle size is a practical guide: a 500ml bottle suits regular use, while a 4 oz tube is easier to test first.
Some products on this page are sold for a different purpose despite sharing shelf space. Powerect Benzocaine Male Delay Gel, Mandelay Climax Control Gel and Wicked Overtime Delay Cream are delay products, and Wicked Toy Cleaner Refill is a cleaner, not a lube. Read the purpose on the label before you add anything to your order. Little Genie and Nasstoys account for the most products here, and that brand spread gives you plenty of formats to compare.
Desensitizing FAQ
- Which desensitizing lube suits anal use best?
- Start by checking whether the formula is labeled for anal use and whether it is water-based. Water-based formulas are generally easier to wash off with warm water and mild soap. Compare tube sizes too, since a small tube lets you find out how a formula feels before you commit to a larger bottle.
- How do deep throat sprays differ from fisting creams?
- Deep throat sprays are lighter and are made for a different area of use, while fisting creams are thicker and made for heavier use. The two formats are not interchangeable, so match the product to its intended use rather than swapping one for the other.
- Should I choose a water-based or an oil-based desensitizing lube?
- Water-based lube is usually the simpler choice because it rinses out easily and works with most toys. Oil-based formulas can break down latex condoms, so avoid them if you use condoms. Check the base type on the label before buying.
- How much desensitizing product should a beginner buy?
- A small tube or spray lets you learn how a formula feels and how easily it cleans up. Once you know which format and base you prefer, a larger size can be more economical. Store products as the label directs and keep caps closed between uses.
